Sexual pleasure: Tips on sex tapes, sexting and nudesIn the latest article on the sexual pleasure series, we explore sex in the digital world, the dos and don'ts of sex tapes, sexting and nudes.
by Obakeng Pholo
11-11-2022 16:58
in LGBTQIA+
article on the sexual pleasure series, we explore sex in the digital world, the dos and don'ts of sex tapes, sexting and nudes. Photo: Pexels
The latest sex tape scandal has us all thinking about our own sexual escapades, especially on our phones, most of us have at some point shared a private image or two.
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Exploring your sexual needs in the digital space can be fun during the moment but it comes with a lot of risks.
An average adult spends an estimated 4.8 hours a day on their phone, we spend more time talking to people on the phone than we do in person, so at some point the conversation may turn sexual, navigating those conversations is also a skill you need to learn.
Malusi Gigaba and Prince Kaybee would have benefited immensely if they knew the simple rules of sexting, here we explore the simple dos and don'ts of sending the best nudes and sex tapes that won't come back to bite.
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ALSO READ: Sexual pleasure: Is sex important in a relationship?
Here are the best tips for sexting, nudes and sex tapes: DOs
Only share content with people you have built enough trust with.
Try out different angles and lighting, if you are going to go viral for this content make sure it is good quality.
Use snap chat and other platforms that restrict downloading and screenshots of content, Grindr also has this option.
Double-check who you are sharing the content with and make sure it is always the right person.
Learn to use suggestive language when sexting, let the other person lead in establishing if they are interested.
If you and your partner decide to film yourselves in the act, let the camera focus on the lower body, masks are also an option.
Sexual Pleasure: The term sexting stand for a combination of sex and texting. Sexting is the act of sending sexual text messages. Photo: Pexel DON'Ts
Don't send unsolicited nudes, if they didn't ask for it, they don't want it.
Don't take any nudes, sex tapes, etc. showing your face.
Don't show any unique features of your body like piercings or tattoos.
Don't store your content in your phone gallery.
Don't do it if you are unsure and if you are uncomfortable.
ALSO READ: Leaked sex tape: Zanele Sifuba opens civil case
Have fun with your sexual desires, continue to explore what brings you the most pleasure in the safest way, communicate your needs and feelings with your intimate partner and if you going digital make sure to follow those tips.
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Do remember that South Africa has laws that prohibit the distribution of personal information including images and videos without the persons' permission, we also have the films and Publications Amendment Act that makes revenge porn illegal in South Africa.
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